Teaching Emotions Through Children's Books

We all have those beloved stories that we read, and re-read and re-read again when we were children.  Besides being funny or heart warming, I am sure if you reflect back on these stories there was a character that you were attached to as well.  Whether it was because you could relate to the character or there was something endearing about them, you did not forget the story thread of that book.

Teaching children emotions can be a very tricky matter. Using stories to assist our children in learning emotions and being able to identify them and respond appropriately is a great interactive and non-threatening way for our children to learn.  Either while reading the book or following it, talk about what's happening, how are people feeling and what they could have done differently.

As a mom of 3, I know that story time is a cherished time of the day; where your children are captivated by the story being read and are more receptive to answering questions as long as they are relative to the book.  Here are some of my favorites that will help teach your child different emotions.  I hope you enjoy them as much as I do!

Empathy and Understanding Uniqueness in Individuals

Giraffes Can't Dance by Giles Andreae

This wonderful story depicts the way in which people feel when they feel ridiculed.  Not to worry, there is a happy ending with others understanding and appreciating differences in everyone's strengths.

The Sneetches by Dr. Seuss

Leave it to Dr. Seuss to give us a story in which we learn if being different and elite is really what matters most to us or if it leads us to do foolish things.

Quick as a Cricket by Audrey Wood

Through this quick read, children can learn to embrace all the different characteristics that make them unique.  Use this to discuss how each person may have more of some characteristics making them one of a kind and special.  Also a fun way to see if there are other animals they feel they may relate to!

Friendship

Forget Me Not: Friendship Blossoms by Michael Broad

This heart warming tale helps illustrate the value and pure characteristics found in friendship.  Also a good book about accepting others that are different than ourselves.

Forgiveness

Love You Forever by Robert Munsch

This story is told through the eyes of a child and their mother to understand unconditional love and forgiveness.  This story allows for easy transference of scenarios between siblings and friends.

These are just a handful that I have used time and time again, both in the clinic and at home.  Happy reading!!